Thanks :) It has been interesting to read both posts - I can see a lot of my ex in cluster C... it's made things a bit clearer in my mind. I know he's not right for me and going back to him would only cause me more stress in the long term, but I miss him terribly right now and it's been difficult fighting that feeling.

Many of the problems he laid at my feet were really his own, and I was blind enough to not realise that for a very long time.